3 Quick Fix For Sensual Lust
A lady on short skirt/skimpy top passes by some young men seated at a café and then some real trouble starts on their battle field (the mind) .This trouble is what I call “sensual lust”. They begin to imagine a romantic scene with her in their mind. After some minutes, they get over it but begin to feel guilty because of the immoral thought they’ve just had and this error in the mind goes on and on in different occasions. Well there is a fix for it which we will treat shortly here all together. stay with me here. **winks**
The fix tips for overcoming sensual lust which I came up with may be really funny but just roll with me on this okay…….lols!
1. FIX 1: IMAGINE HE/SHE TO BE YOUR GRAND MAMA/PAPA:
When that lady/man whom you do lust after walked pass again, don’t fall into the trap of lust again. You can always imagine in your mind that he/she is your grand mum/dad. Since it is not possible for you to lust after your granny, your mind will correct itself in imagination. A funny fix right? Just give it a trial and see the result. All these is just to help you fix the error in thought due to what your eye beheld few minutes before the lust crawled in.
2. FIX 2: THINK OF IT AS A GRUESOME CRIME THAT MURDERS YOUR GREAT DREAMS:
Crime? Oh yes! When your mind begins to give room for such terrible/ wrong thought, see it as an enemy as well as a crime which can tarnish your great goals in life. Is this thought for a fix not too extreme? Yes it is and very much necessary in saving your dreams and purpose which you pursue daily. Or are you willing to lose your battlefield (mind) to some immoral thoughts? I guess you wouldn’t want a bad thought to be your drive for daily living.
3. FIX 3: SHARE YOUR DIRTY SECRETS WITH A MENTOR/CLOSE TRUSTWORTHY FRIEND:
Sometimes, the little dirty secrets we keep to only ourselves hunts and keep our mind occupied with dirty thoughts such that an innocent occurrence can be translated into a dirty scene of immoral acts. Two Hindu men were about to cross a river and they saw a young lady who had a Phobia (Fear) for rivers. One of them offered to carry her on his back while they cross over. She accepted and was helped. When the crossing was over, she thanked him and went her way but the other Hindu guy had a terrible thought in his mind when his friend was carrying the young lady (He was thinking of the body contact between her breast and the back of the guy carrying her). This dirty thought made him judge the other by saying to him “Do you know you have sinned by carrying that young lady?” but the other replied saying “you are the one who is guilty of sin here since you translated an offer of help into an immoral scene”.
This short story shows the power that dirty secrets can have over the way we see things on a daily basis. Look for a good mentor/good friend with whom you can share your troubles of thoughts/challenges of emotion with. A problem shared is a problem half solved they say. Why not give this a try?
#ADDITIONAL TIPS………For my dear Christian Folks, try these bible verses ; 2 Tim 2:22-23, Col 3:1-3, Rom 12:1-4.
Remember that your mind is your battlefield where you win or loose battles of decision, plans, goals and more. Choose on what side you would love to be this day forth. Guide your heart with caution and never let any filthy thought rule your days.
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