5 Mysterious Beauties Of Kids
Kids are known to be a blessings to every well established homes because they depict the love that exists between partners involved in the relationship of marriage. They are the very desire of every married person who wishes to raise a child of his/her own. But what they are in comparison to us adults may be a bit mysterious because most of us tend to ignore some of the signs from these little kids around us. We'll in this post, expose these mysterious but yet beautiful truth about kids amongst adult. Read On.
we'll be considering some behaviors of kids on daily basis that we commonly see to be normal but fail to know the lessons or truth behind them.
1. They Reflect The Future:
When kids play, pay a close attention to what they do. You'll discover most times that they are weird to your point of view as an adult and that's why we'll mostly say "oh he is just a kid" . We say so because their manner of thinking are actually not common amongst us adults. but most times the thoughts later become something valuable in the society at large.
In Nigeria to be precise, when i was a kid we do mold different forms of weird toys and cars using clay and roofing zincs. Back then it meant nothing but now it means serious business. kids would play with empty tins tied to each other with ropes as a means of communication. Is that not the basic principle of telecommunication? kids would mix different types of leaves as a dish. It was funny back then but this days we find out that Chefs from all around the world are trying out different leaves in one dish as a special diet for one reason or the other. We can go on and on to give more examples of what kids do that do not make sense at initial but later becomes an idea for business among adults. Indeed kid are special.
2. They Remind Us Of The Past:
While we were young, there are things we do often as habits. Some good and some bad. When kids come into our homes, they mysteriously in one way or the other remind us of the things we did before. The very nature of how we twist our way of looking at people will also be shown by our kids. Funny right? let me share a short story with you. i have an aunt who usually looked at people in a specific way which sounded like "Hey Back Off" . when she later got married, she gave birth to a girl and behold the little girl while growing, took the artificial look her mum started some years back.
Kids also if not tamed most times repeats histories of the bad things we did in our days of youth. some kids if well tamed or trained would repeat greater history than ours by starting out similar to what we did. it is very necessary we embark on good deeds that the future with our kids will reflect our very own life in a good way. live right.
3. Kids Change Adults Mentality:
A man can live as he so wishes while he is single but the moment he gets married, everything changes because some kids came by. Is it not mysterious that two quarreling couples would stop the moment they see their kids looking at them. it simply means that there is something special about kids that adults can not just ignore. adult's mentality is heavily affected by kids or is it not?
4. They Are Calculative:
As an adult, you may not most times understand why a child is crying if you are not the mother. even the mother may not know most times. this is so because kids are usually too calculative about what they want and when they don't get it, they get emotional. Do they not in the same way express our reactions to challenges most times. Some adults would cry in their closets because all their calculative efforts towards a goal was wasted due to one circumstance or the other. Paying attention to kids can give us a short and fast flash back on our lives.
5. They Control Family Finances:
It is funny, annoying, and most times tiring how the presence of kids make the financial states of parents unstable. it happens in reflex as parents will see themselves even borrowing money to satisfy a basic need that has to do with their kids. but at a long run it is usually satisfying when the long financial sacrifices yield good results for the home.
The above points are my own views of the impact kids have on Adults generally. what are your points of view on this Topic? Please Comment!!!
Though i cant recall all i played as a kid but i do agree with you. Because the joy of every married home is only completed when kids arrive. This is an experience. I have also noticed that kids really influence our way of thinking in terms of keeping a smile always even when you seem to be angry...
ReplyDeleteOh Yes Esther They Bring Joy in Our lives Because they Are So unique and a blessing.Thanks For Coming By. i hope to see you more in here.
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