6 Reasons Not To Judge Others
It is usually a common thing to judge people around in the environment maybe because they did something wrong. words of condemnation are easily uttered in this regard. the act of judging has negative effects. we'll be considering some reasons why it is not good and necessary to judge others.
1. Physical Appearance is Usually Deceptive:
Most people would usually judge others based on their appearance, how they look and more. but the truth is that the physical appearance is just but a factor for description but can never define the true person you see physically. it will only make look away from the real facts you should have valued in that person.
Never use what your eyes sees to judge others cause you're not sure of what others see in you.
2. Humans Differ in Taste:
That something does not fit your lifestyle or beliefs doesn't make it wrong. if you judge others just because they do not share the same taste for certain things with you, how sure are you that others won't judge you because your taste for certain things differs from theirs.
It is necessary to know that we humans think in different ways and so differ in our wants,beliefs and desires for lots of things in life. never judge people because they don't share the same platform of reasoning with you. tolerance is very necessary.
3. Judging Others Defines You:
When you judge someone, you'll feel you just defined the person but the truth is you are only but defining yourself. the moment you judge, you open a huge gate for everyone around to have a view into your life. everyone will start to rate your perfectionism since you have the guts to judge someone.
Be careful with the issue of judging people cause others will as well be triggered into scrutinizing
you.
4. Know That Nobody is Perfect:
It is very crucial to have the basic knowledge that nobody is perfect and you inclusive. the moment this thought is conceptualized, you'll begin to understand that humans can not always do right 100%. mistakes are bound to be made.
If you expect people to be perfect, that means you'll never stop the act of condemnation. remember that nobody is perfect not even you.
5. Your Information are Never Complete:
This may sound unacceptable to some persons especially if the person they judge is a friend or a family. but the truth is you can never have a complete information about someone. the person can only let you know what he/she wants you to know about them.
There are usually lots of information or should i say secrets that you may not know. so when you judge, you're doing that without a complete information about the person you judge. even if you have a little knowledge about the person, how sure are you its the real truth about the person?
6. Do Unto Others What You'll Love Others To Do to You:
Be careful of the way you judge others cause it is with the same measure that others will reciprocate to you what you've done. the kind of comments you uttered maybe accorded to you. at the end of the day you may not like it but that is just a fruit of a seed planted by the act of judging.
Most times while judging we may feel comfortable cause we are the ones passing the judgement but those points do not really count because those being judged even if wrong could change and become a much better person. when this happens, all the judgement becomes a waste. your time is precious cause you're unique and have great works to do. will you spend those valuable time doing great works or judging?
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