5 Popular Moments We Give Up
Everyday is filled with its challenges and natural opportunities just as the ticking of the time-clock. we succeed and fail most of the time depending on our approach to the issues that best relates to us. today we'll look at success from the perspective of giving up. everybody has a weak-point that usually tends to weigh the human morale down in moments we're supposed to stand up tall and face the challenges that comes by to test our strength and wisdom. we'll consider scenarios that are most common in the society in terms of career, family, Business wise and lots more. Read on.
1. When A Family Member Dies:
At the family level, this is a mourning period. it is the moment that an individual can actually abandon anything he/she was engaged in before the demise of their loved ones. this period exposes their thinking to lots of distractions that could kill their dreams especially when the deceased is very close to them. i have a friend who lost his brother to a car accident. after some months, i discovered that this young man was somehow beginning to live some bits of his late brother's life. his late brother usually love gym exercises so much. he took after that steps and to a point he began to look so much like his brother in stature and lifestyle. this simply explains the effect of the memory of a loss to our daily activities.
Nevertheless, moments like this can weaken us but if used well could actually give an insight to a growth in our psychological views about life. when you pick lessons from the memory of those whom you lost in the past, there are always lessons to pick from their history while they were here with you. never dwell so much in the pain but embrace the gift of knowledge from their life histories.
2. When You Loose Or Can't Get A Job:
This is a very common heartbreak for young men and women mostly. in this period, jobs seems to be an Alpha and Omega for the life we have simply because it's more of an everyday affair of our lives. some persons feel like committing suicide when they loose or can't get a job to sustain themselves. periods like this brings negative thoughts so much to the doorstep of the unemployed. that's why we see criminal activities on the increase on our streets everyday. but as tough as this challenge, it is a platform for a creative reasoning. this is the point where the thoughts of becoming an enterpreneur comes in. why not take a chance?
Even though the challenges of jobs is a universal problem, it is not necessary that we give up on our dreams but instead we should see it as a challenge to keep pushing through until the walls that cage our dreams are broken down. every career building or planning never starts out easy at all. there must be challenges to make you a Boss in the future. stop thinking of giving up and dream of being great irrespective of what you may be facing currently. for no moment lasts forever.
3. When A Business Plan Fails:
In the world of business, planning is the essential bedrock for profit making. but when plans crushes or fails, businessmen mostly feel like giving up. business as its developmental ethics says; "its all about risk-taking". but most times this ethic is forgotten in moments of loss as the pain seems to be more in impact on the business personnel. giving up on a business because a plan for it failed will only thwart the dreams that initiated the running of the business at initial. it is very necessary to hold on a little bit more at any instance of failure instead of giving up quickly. we can always build up a broken wall if we want to.
4. Break-Ups:
Relationships have so much effect on all human beings because it is a reflex occurrence that is inevitable in our society. most times when we have challenges in our communications with friends and family, it weighs so much affairs about us down that some people go to the extent of committing suicide. to some people, it as an unbearable moment. but as painful as break ups can be, we still need to stand up on our pride and shy away from the pain it cost us in the past. no feeling can last forever as such, live free of pain by paying less attention to your past.
5. Health Challenges:
This is the most common among us. when people have certain sickness such as cancer, HIV/AIDS etc it is usually seen as a moment that no man can win over. most persons give up by their so much believe in the medical reports the doctors brings to their sick beds. families have been buried in the shackles of tears and sorrows because of a particular sickness that has so much affected a loved one. in this context, our faith in God needs to come into function. you need to feel encouraged and not give up. for tomorrow holds a lot of blessings for us. so why give up?
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