6 Dangerous Effects Of Gossip

Gossip do not usually appear to be what it is because those involved in it enjoys its flairs  with so much satisfaction that comes with it. as sweet as it may seem, it also has so many harsh dangerous effects on whosoever is involved in it. this article will be exposing the dangers that  are not physically seen in the dimension of gossip.



1. You Can't Be Trusted:

  When you constantly gossip, gradually the honesty in you begins to varnish. you may not notice it but those around you sure do and this will leave a huge mark of  "Not trustworthy" on your personality. this singular act may be fun when taking place as there is a satisfaction of doing what one pleases but its aftermath effect on personality is so damaging.




2. You'll Hurt Others:

  One of the most painful effects of gossip is the hurt your words will inflict on others whom you may be talking about. a single act of gossip could be a million betrayal to someone it hurts. this will make you loose some good friends and family as well.

Words could become swords of destruction if misused. use your words well.



3. You'll Become  A Promise Breaker:

  Gossip steals the sincerity that dwells on the inside. if this is lost to gossip, you'll tend to loose meaning your yes when you say it. this effect grows into making you break promises even when  you don't wish to because already you're in the bondage of gossip effects.


How it works is that it gives you some reasons not to do what you've planned or agreed to do. how it controls the mindset is usually negative as it doesn't give room for good ideas. all it will network is personal satisfactions that has no real good results for a better tomorrow.




4. It Will  Isolate You:

  You will still have friends around but the truth is you're still alone in the world of gossip. those around you will secretly resent you but won't make it clear to you. this isolation eats up the bests in you as it tarnishes the beautiful image you have.


Its cage is usually like a comfort zone which is a big lie. this is the reason why those involved in it do not see what is wrong with it until it affects something so dear to them. it confuses its victim not to see it as wrong act since it gives them some satisfaction of self-will fulfillment of doing what they so please.



5. It Destroys Your Honesty:

  Gossip translates your words into adulterated ones as you'll always find it hard to say things exactly the way they are. it will make your words to be lies even though a portion of  it was true. gossip suppresses the truth. giving it a little space, makes it a king over your thoughts and words. it's like a wild fire that knows no boundaries. curtailing it, is a very necessary thing. sometimes you maybe triggered into it by anger but it's good to curtail its excesses to avoid it bashing effect on your good qualities.




6. Denies You Unseen Opportunities:
  Maybe a good job was available at a friend's work place. it could be a contract or something but you may miss it because  your friend resents the fact that you gossip a lot and may tell on you. gossip is a secret opportunity eater cause it makes you unnecessarily invisible to stuffs that could have been yours.




Anger,betrayal,hurt and many other reasons may have driven you into gossiping without you even knowing but it is necessary to be conscious of the dangers of it and break free from it. you're more Valuable than this  gossip of a thing or aren't you?




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