HEART TALK: Are Nigerian Ladies Wicked?

On a natural slate, i have come to notice that there is this thing peculiar about Nigerian ladies which i will love to call 'the extraction reflex life'. but this extraction is not a bad thing.
Hey! don't get me wrong here because the extraction reflex life of ladies have actually blessed alot of homes and families.
         So what is this extraction am talking about? it is the their natural strength popularly called 'strength of  a woman' by men which they(ladies) use to get whatsoever they want. they most times use it to get alot of things done. but coming down to to the Nigerian context, alot of young men have their experiences to  share about Nigerian Ladies and how their extraction power has affected their lives either positively or negatively.

          But today we want to do some analysis of our Nigerian ladies in the context of how they use their Woman strength.
          I was at a conference some two years ago at Abuja and a young man made a statement that got me thinking deep. he said "You ladies always want to collect and don't give" and another young man shared his story of how he gave his all to his girlfriend whom he planned to settle down with and she all of a sudden vanished with another much richer man.
          In all this different testimonies and stories, i see the ladies using the 'woman strength' of extraction cause its like a shield for them. But my question is "Are Nigerian Ladies really wicked the way they use their woman strength?



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